So yesterday after a lengthy convo I felt like I needed a release...
A sexual one...
BUT...I didn't go there! But it did get me to thinking...
Are my efforts at celibacy in vain?
Cause I really, really, REALLY just wanna fuck!
But alas...I don't think anyone can handle my stipulations...and I've already made it this far....so I guess I'll just continue.
*sigh*
6 comments:
What are the stipulations? Are they really extreme>
I totally understand the feeling....*sigh* I've been INVOLUNTARILY abstinent for 5 months. I won't say celibate because I didn't purposely tell myself I was going to stop LOL. But let a man pass by smelling like some "Come get me" and I have to instantly cross my legs. Nevertheless I refuse to just jump any man's bone...mmmhmmm pun intended so abstinent I shall stay. Geeez Louise.....
@Nightfall my stipulations are simple really, I have a friend that I have sex with...we exclusively have sex with each other and each other only. No emotional attachment on a level other than friends. Once said friend finds someone they're interested in (or I do...whichever comes first) we cut off the sex portion.
@Starrla I feel your pain! Lawd knows I do! This shit is the pits!
Oooooooh the "usual" stipulations.
I'll be honest. From 1 coast of this nation to another I've heard that so many times and it never really seems to play out as simple as it sounds. But hey, I hope you can do it. :)
damn those are your stipulations and you're have trouble finding someone to adhere to them? That's crazy. I used to be with a guy like that but then I caught feelings and had to bounce with the quickness. I say if you can't find someone who is willing to adhere, then keep doing what your doing: yourself.
that's what typically happens. One or the other catches feelings so that arrangement sounds ideal but in actuality it really isn't. I've tried it and ended up with dudes getting real jealous when it was time to move on. I can't deal with that.
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