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Thursday, October 29, 2009

Paint by the Numbers


"What's your number of sexual partners?"

If somebody asks me that shit I swear I might let two drops of pee out. Why is it even important? Why is it relevant to what "we" have now? What if I made some mistakes in the past but I'm not like that anymore?

Now, I'm a curious person...I want to know that information from my partner...but then the "relationship" part of me doesn't want to find out because then I'll have mucho follow up questions...

If it's alot...how did that happen?

If it's not alot...how did that happen?

What was your best sexual experience?

What was your weirdest?

What was the worst sexual experience?

And the most important question of all....Where do I rank? (Not that they would tell me honestly anyway).

Will women ever be on the same playing field as men when it comes to sex? Men can have a hundred sexual partners and be seen as "the man" in some folks eyes...a woman however can have 15 and be seen as a whore. Will that ever change? I doubt it.

So to you I ask...would you disclose your number to your significant other...would you ask (and really want to hear) their number?

My number? I won't give you specifics...between 3-10...that's good enough.

5 comments:

NightFall914 said...

Nope. I dont do the numbers thing. If my partner wants to reveal it then cool. It NEVER does any good. I used to wonder things like that. But now I get into deep enough general conversation that the important stuff of a sexual tone gets covered without really asking for it.

Some say my number is high....others say no not really so who knows.

Monique said...

Seriously I could not and would not reveal my number simply for that double standard. I have had my fair share of "fun" but that was during a brief two period in my life when I was running through them like socks.

As far as the guy, I guess i would want to know but ignorance is bliss sometimes. Let's keep the peace and keep it to ourselves.

Robyn Latice said...

Hmmm..well in all my "serious" relationships I've revealed my number bc they ask.But I havent been in a serious relationship in a while..and if they ask now I would politley tell them i dont care to disclose that information. Im like you its somewhere btw 3-10. thats it! [Which i honestly dont think is bad at all.] And as far as knowing about my partners..I dont care to know. All of the recent ones have been 30 and up. And IM 19, and so are they! Damn shame!--so I rather not hear their answers anymore.

NINA said...

LMAOO REMEBER WHEN I ASKE DHTIS ON TWITTER?! EVERYBODY GOT SCARED AND BELLA WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO ANSWERED!

southern bell said...

I will never reveal how many guys I've been with. I feel like it's not important, that's the past. If my partner asks, usually I will say "A lady never tells". I'll take that number to my grave.