So (as usual) I've been thinking alot about relationships....not necessarily in regards to myself...but in general as well. And for some reason I had a moment this morning whilst thinking about past "relationships"....
Am I just a vacation home?
I know yall like what the fuck is that supposed to mean...well friends...I shall tell you.
EVERYBODY loves a good vacation right? It's fun! It's new! It's exciting! It's a change of pace!
But eventually....everybody wants to go home right? The saying after all does say, "there's no place like home"....not "there's no place like Vegas" or some shit like that.
So am I seen as just a good time for a short while? Am I a all inclusive resort?
I mean....I cook, I clean...I smell good, look presentable at all times...I know how to act in front of company....but then you also have the "nightlife" portion of me: I'm fun to hang out with at the clubs, bars, etc....I'm always down for a drink (no alchy though lol)....I love having sex and pretty much down for whatever in regards to it...I rarely wear underwear...I'm wholesome like apple pie but still a little risque like the apples were cooked in a flavored vodka before they were put into the pie.
All of this I would THINK makes me a catch right? Somebody you would want to make your "home sweet home" ....but that hasn't happened yet.
Now by NO MEANS is this a "woe is me, I don't have a man rant" nuh uh, cause I don't do that (not anymore anyway) ....just a thought that had crossed my mind and I figured I'd leave it open for discussion.
8 comments:
From reading your blog you're not a vacation home lol. You seem to be the one calling the shots, not the men. You limit your interactions with them to "good times" they always seem to want more. So if anything the men seem to be the ones you're taking vacations to. Not the other way around.
Shiieet a lifelong vacation home is whats up to some,but not everybody has the same taste you just might be to exotic and too much fun for them to handle everyday of there lives,believe it or not some people don't like the "traditional" house with the backyard,garage and pickett fences they get boring after awhile and the property value decline,where's to a vacay spot is always popping and reguardless of time it always has a good volume of equities to invest so send the ones that cant keep up with the mortgage back to their neighborhoods they probaly fck your value up anyway.lol
Thaaaaanks guys :-)
*clutching pearls* co-sign with Anonymous
Love the way you summed that up..had me lookin at myself like..."hmm, is that me?"
I have the weirdest ideas...don't know how I came up with a vacation home/regular home...but when I did I was thought to myself:
"Self...you're a GENIUS!" LOL
*tiger woods fist pump* yaaasssss.. Anonymous..Said it the best!
I feel u with this one Epitome cuz that's the same way i feel about relationships. I look back on some of my exes and say damn was i just a short lived vacay home cuz they are all back at home sweet home.
I can dig erething you saying. I sometimes feel like i'm the "fun" girl...
you'll find yo mister soon.
I think many of us wonder that about ourselves. Been asking myself that same question for almost 29 years and yet i'm still single or in 'no titled' relationships that last for 2+ years.
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