Male sleeps with a bunch of different women...man = normal
Female sleeps with a bunch of different men...woman = HOE
That's just the reality of the situation boo boos...I don't like it either, but baby, in life, there's gonna be some shit that just ain't fair.
I got this friend who I've known forever...and she's a hoe...an in denial hoe...but a hoe nonetheless. My brother lived in Ohio for years and is 6 years her senior...when he came back to VA he questioned her hoe activities..."How you know she a hoe?" I questioned..."So and so told me" he replied.
Ladies do you see? Niggas run their mouths waaaaaay more than bitches...DIFFERENCE IS...they have an honor code...where we will run our mouths to whomever will listen, they tell their "circle"...people they trust...people they know won't go running around saying "You know Derrick told me that so and so was a hoe!"
If they hear from one of their boys that you're a hoe...then you're a hoe, their boy's words are good as gold. You are now in the eyes of those in their circle...a hoe. Period.
And if you run across a old hating ass dude who you might have played to the left, he'll run tell his ole hating ass friends that you're a hoe...luckily real men know that the words of a hating ass nigga are not to be trusted and taken with a grain of salt...
"Yeah, Larry said so and so was a hoe...but you know how that nigga be..."
Either way...stop acting like your pussy has a mind of its own...stop replacing love with sex...just cause you running on empty on love doesn't mean you gotta fill up on the latter.
"What the fuck you talmbout Epitome? Why I gotta be replacing love with sex...I just like to fuck!"
People replace something that is not easily attainable with something that is ready available...it's human nature...all you're doing is buying the store brand of bread and tarnishing your name in the process.
And is that really worth it?
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It dang sure aint. I just found out a friend of mine that had been sexplacing has an incurable std. It just aint worth it.
I love this post...words of wisdom....preachhhhh
This was an interesting post though I must say that you are generalizing quite a bit. Sex is an innate animal-like nature. It is something in us that tells us we must do this to procreate. It also happens to FEEL GOOD & this makes us want to do it more. There are those of us who don't automatically associate sex with love. We just enjoy the pure physical satisfaction sex affords us. Though I don't promote promiscuity I do advocate acknowledging, owning & respecting oneself & one's sexuality. Doing these will lead to a happy healthy sex life. & for the record sex is all the more better when its with someone you love and someone who reciprocates.
----MiSS NOLA
i esp liked the ending
that's true. when it comes to sex dudes are like chatty cathy's. we'll talk about sex with a stranger. lol
seriously.
and i don't think men feel superior w/ the double standard of "being a hoe"
a man is like a credit card & a woman is like a punch ticket. you can swipe him over and over again before his strip starts to wear down. but once a woman's ticket gets punched it's more noticeable. lol
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