So this is the first year I didn't officially have a Valentine. I was with the ex since 2002, we broke up 2008 (two days before Valentines day mind you) and in 2009 I had B4N for the physical aspect...but this year I was fully alone.
No cut buddy...
No prospects...
Just me.
And unlike all the other single people...I was perfectly okay with that. I wasn't bitter or upset or mad that I didn't have someone to buy me flowers or take me to dinner, shit, half the people that were amped about Valentine's day are getting dogged out the other 364 days of the year anyway.
For alot of people Valentine's day is like a makeup day for the rest of the bullshit they are gonna do for the rest of the year...I'd much rather have a man take me out and buy me something cause it's April 25...a regular ass day.
Don't do something cause everyone else is...truly when I was in a relationship, we kept it simple for Valentine's day...a nice gift, some dinner at the crib...and sex...done. Save the romance for a day that'll really count.
And if you're one of those Sour sallys or Bitter Brians...cut that shit out...maybe if you work on not being so damn upset about not having a Valentine, you'll actually get one next year.
2 comments:
I agree. I most definitely didn't feel anything but blessed on VDAY. I make me, My family makes me. Having a guy is great but it doesn't make me. I enjoyed my vday at carolines watching damon wayans tell jokes.
Well I personally don't celebrate valentines day. I've always thought it was stupid. It's a day when dudes get a pass for being slackers the other 364 days a year. I'm good! lol. Buy me a gift or take me out just because it's tuesday *shurg*. I got a sideeye from my dude because I told him to save his money for another day.
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