When you get a new job you do your best to prove your worthy, right? You show up to work on time and put your best foot forward and let the people around you know that you deserve that job...right?
A little bit down the line...a couple months/years later you've become accustomed to your position so you slack off here and there but you still do what you need to do right? Because if you don't...what happens?
So why is it that when we get "the job" as wifey/girlfriend/his woman/whatever we don't do half of what we did before?
Pajamas then...
Pajamas now...
Underwear then...
Underwear now...
Meals then...
Meals now...
Sex then...
Sex now...
Attitude then...
Attitude now...
Body then...
Body now...
Do you see a trend? What happens when you're unhappy? Unhappy with your job, unhappy with your car, unhappy with your hair? You try to change it or find a better alternative, right? Right. Now I'm not saying this is always the case...but...men get side chicks (generally speaking) because they are getting something from her that they are not getting from you...now it could be that he has a problem with commitment but that's another blog entirely honey child.
So ladies I encourage you to tongue your man's balls while you make him a turkey sandwich! Give him some booty butt cheeks and leave before the game comes on so he can watch in peace! Do that nasty shit you saw in the porno you watched with him last week that made his dick jump! We want our men to be our man and our best friend, they want us to be their main and side chick, so stand and deliver!
8 comments:
This is the freakin truth... i am very guilty for letting my self go with that Ex bastid of mine but please believe thats all it took for me. Now he wants that old thang back.....NOPE aint gon happen!
Reminds me of the Let me cater to you song by Destiny's Child.
I'll have to thank you for spreading this knowledge should I ever meet hyou.
Even the most business savvy straight laced woman needs to be able to channel that inner porn star at times to keep things lively.
Wow that is sooooooo true! A lot of my sisters need to read this. A wake up call for me too!
@Ms. Jones: I'm guilty of it too I won't even lie, we all do a little slippin on our pimping from time to time
@Nightfall: should we ever meet I will gladly say you're welcome ;-)
@Valencia: I thought this blog was due...so often we point out what 'he ain't doing' without looking at what we aren't doing
@Reggie: Give me a place and a date :-)
I'm so late, but kudos.... but then what if the dude start to slack later on, which makes up slack?????
@Piph: personally I feel if the dude is slacking then you address it, discuss it...if he's open to changing, great...if he's not...goodbye!
Yea, that's true. I was just infatuated. I definitely done let him go and found better :)
I can honestly, I don't switch up in relationship. The BOYS usually do. And that gets old after awhile and I end up leaving. and then of course, he wants me back. Never fails lol. My dude now knows exactly what a gem he has. He knows not to take it for granted,
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