I remember seeing awhile back on Nightfall's blog a link to another blog where the writer discussed a Pussycot...
And I thought ohhhhh boycotting of the sweet sticky substance that lies between our (women's) thighs would surely give these dumb ass men some ack right...after all half the shit they do is because of us...
They wear flashy clothes because we like them (generally speaking..some men really are into fashion...and those men are generally called gay)
They buy flashy cars because we like to oooh and ahhh over them
They buy big houses because we are impressed by shit like that
If women would accept a man that lived in a card board box wearing Southpole gear do you think they wouldn't live in card board boxes and rock Southpole gear?
We complain about shit but we can change it! HOWEVER...one person cannot move a mountain...a group however is a movement...a group of people with like minded ideas can bring forth whatever outcome they like hence civil rights activists (bringing out the good) and Nazis (bringing out the bad). We have so much power to change the very things that make us think no good men are left out there in the world yet and still many of us put up with what they give us simply to say "I have a man"....saddens me.
So I leave you with this...You can't be treated anyway unless YOU allow yourself to be treated as such. If you are being treated like a ho, it's because you're allowing yourself to be treated as such...if you are being treated like you aren't important, it's because you're allowing yourself to be treated as such.
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True shit... I like this.
But now that I think about it, most females are too STUPID to realize anything and continue to let it happen. My [male] best friend and I were just talking about this the other night. But then, others who are in the "stupid" category, may also see it and still continue to let it happen. So, I think that instead of us females ALWAYS trying to go head-to-head and compete with each other, we should just stick together like our male counterparts and try and stop this together.
(I know I done left some things out in this comment, I just don't wanna lecture like I'm always finding myself doing.)
@Piph it's a cycle...too many women are concerned with having a man that they'll let them do whatever they want just to say they have one...then they pass that mentality on to their daughters, who pass it on to their friends...etc...shit is sad.
@Anonymous: my "little ploy"? Gain power? Rule the male gender? Sir (I'm assuming) did you even read the blog you commented on? Apparently your reading comprehension is lacking because what you wrote in no way related to what I posted. Allow me to break down what I stated since you seemed to have missed the point entirely...if women stop rewarding men when they don't deserve to be rewarded, they will change their actions. Have you heard of Pavlov conditioning? It's the same thing...men have been conditioned by women that they can do whatever they like and be rewarded...if women stop accepting anything from these men and setting standards it will in fact change how they treat us. What's sickening is that you males feel as though that since you have a dick you rule the world...you can save that shit for a little girl who don't know no better sweetie because a nigga thinking he gonna come to my table acting any old way will be quickly dismissed...just like I'm dismissing you. NEXT.
LMAO.. now that was funny!
I am copying, pasting and emailing this to someone who really needs to read it. Women need not to stop the thirst and quench it themselves.
I remember that post. I was of the position that while it may effect a few people a "pussycott" isn't a strong enough stance to change anything of true value. Now yes there are men that do a lot for the love of the coochie but you really dont want to affiliate with them anyway so that leaves the real quality men and truthfully I man that's about his business, with progress and life in general won't be stopped by sex restrictions.
Long story short....the type of men that would be hurt most by this aren't even worth the effort.
Great post. Hope all is good Epitome. ;)
@Monique my sentiments exactly!
@Nightfall I'm not speaking specifically on withholding pussy, I mean withholding in general, withhold our time, etc...if we as women stop dating men who aren't up to our standards then men will essentially step their game up and we won't have to deal with the same men taht we complain about.
But anywho...all is well :-) Hope the same on your end
I'm not going to lie i stopped reading when i saw that picture of the Devil bka Diddy! I was scared he was going to touch me and that was going to be all she wrote for me!!! lol
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