"So what are you into? What do you like?"
"Aggressive women...I've always had to be the aggressor so that would be a welcomed change."
Now this would not be blog worthy except for the fact that we allllllll know Ms. Epitome is def not the aggressive type.
Au contrare mon frere.
Epitome gets turned on by some of the acts in the movie Secretary...
Yeah...don't judge me man...I likes it rougher than the average...no surprise there.
But I thought to myself...
"What would I do to embody that aggressive female?"
I thought....and thought....and thought....and thought....
And I came up with nothing :-/
So whenever I have a question (after consulting my friends of course)....I turn to you blog fam! How would I become an aggressive female? What would I say? What would I do? Have you been/dealt with an aggressive female? Is it better than a submissive such as myself?
You know the drill....leave it in the comments...1, 2, 3, GO!
5 comments:
One thing that may help is looking it at from a role playing standpoint. Sometimes if you create a character and get into her, you can bring out that aggressive side a little more. Try being the Rich Brat who's used to getting what she wants and what you want is the timid Gardener to "trim your bushes". LOL Take charge and be the one to initiate things. Grab him by the neck and kiss him hard and deep. Grab HIS butt when he kisses you, jump on top and hold him down while you kiss away. Look at it as you are the man and he is the woman. Literally trade places.
'Being the aggressor' does not mean 'being aggressive'. If you want to get into that little piece of role play, you don't need to be angry, agressive or even physical. Taking control and giving orders are just as important, attached to a cool, dis-interested veneer.
Explain to him that he must follow your orders to the letter (no backchat, no argument, no sniggering) or it will be a long, cold and sexless evening.
Make him strip for you and then inspect his body (as if you were a mechanic and he were a car.) And then make him go down on you until you are totally satisfied. And no matter how good it feels, tell him he needs to try harder!
phallatio said it best lol.
The things Monique and Phallatio are saying can help but I think being the "aggressor" has more to do with personality more than anything. If you are no the type to take the leap first then you wouldn't necessarily be that way in the bedroom too. It just takes practice of being more aggressive in your day to day life and it will transfer over to the bedroom. It worked for me....maybe i'll work for you too *shrugs*
being the aggressor in the sense he was probably talking about is initiating the situation. i want my chick to initiate more. if you want it, grab it and we can do it. if i'm standing in the hallway push up on me. it doesn't really mean beating a dudes ass. it just means showing that he doesn't have to do all the work. it doesn't have to be his idea.
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