One thing that I see at least daily is the mention of haters.
I have no problem with that, we all have people who try to knock the hustle, there's always somebody trying to bring the next person down cause you doing and they ain't...but if you talmbout your haters everyday...
Sweetheart there's a problem.
You're devoting so much time to these "haters" that you getting side tracked from the hustle.
Haters are usually folks who strive to be in the spotlight...therefore by acknowledging their hate...is giving them exactly what they want...camera time! Not to mention the fact that you are mentioning them lets them know that they've succeeded in the task of getting under your skin. In essence when you think that you are throwing shade to the haters, you're throwing them shine! The hater has essentially beat you.
I've come to the conclusion that people who incessantly talk about haters are actually casting bait and fishing to acquire a few haters and that my friends is a reverse psychology fail.
Do. Better.
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Very true and stated well. I remember watching a Katt Williams stand up act and I thought he was acknowledging haters too much, albeit funny, but he's always smacking, getting smacked, and stressed...
I like Jay-Z's approach: He who does not feel me is not real to me...You know the rest (Poof!)
yes preach! even if i noticed somebody doing some hater-ish mess, i won't even call them a hater. i just feel like i'm too old to be calling people "haters" lol. it kills me how people walk around with delusions of grandeur. i'd be willing to bet that a majority of these folks just claim to have haters to make themselves feel "important" or appear that way to others. like "big ups to all my haters!" and everybody is lookin around like "what? who? where?" lol
i'm glad you posted on this subject matter, very well said :)
yyyeeeesssssss! I just had an similar conversation with my brother about the same thing. When u acknowledge the haters u give them exactly what they want! instead you should be striving off of it and working harder for you and yours and giving them a reason the hate even hater.
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