Just why?

If you remember I blogged about a friend who I thought was standing me up on a night we were supposed to go out and I figured that she was backsliding with the ex. Well in that blog I said I would get into why I can't stand his ass...well, that time is now.

My club friend and I have been friends for 13 years...no, she's not my all purpose friend for many reasons...one of which will be discussed in this blog.

She has a son by this guy...we'll call him..."Breezy"...now her and Breezy been on again off again for as long as they been together which is 5 years. Now she's always kinda followed in my footsteps (her own doing, not mine) and wanted to "be me" (her words...not mine people) but really I can't blame her cause...well...I'm pretty much the shit. I kid, I kid...well not really. Anywho, I moved into a townhouse with my boyfriend (now my ex) and she subsequently did the same thing (with her now ex). Now it's time for some background...

Her and Breezy had issues from jump...I've come to the conclusion that the only reason she decided to play wifey is cause I was living the good life with my boo (now my ex). He was NOT the type of guy you want to make your man...especially when he's asking you to drop him to his cousin house and you gladly oblige and then find out (after following him and pulling some ole cheaters type bullshit and filming it on your camera phone) that the house you dropping him off at every other day is in fact not his cousin's...but the other broad he fucking besides your ass...after all this, she takes him back time and time again.

So back to the story, they living together...Breezy is straight disrespecting my girl by:

1.) Not coming home
2.) Not being a father to his sons (1 from a previous relationship)
3.) Not kicking my girl no dough for NOTHING (i.e. Nothing on the rent, nothing on the groceries, cable cut off, light bill behind, etc...oh and did I mention that homey SHOPS...coming in with true religion jeans, kenneth cole shoes, etc. every other week? Yeah)
4.) Laid hands on my girl (she said he threw her into a wall and then choked her out)

Now...I try not to put my two cents into nobody's relationship...especially a fucked up on again off again one cause a bitch gonna do what she wanna do. When she get fed up, she'll bounce. And that's what she did. Didn't renew the lease, packed up her shit, and moved back to her mommas.

This nigga (and I mean nigga in the most degrading way possible) decided he didnt feel like moving his other son's stuff out of the apartment so I had to help her...until 4 am...on a sunday...when I had to be to work the next day. Yeah he straight triflin yo. When she asked him if he was gonna come get the stuff he said no, after he told her he would, after she paid for an extra day to move out the stuff, outta her pocket.

Damn he makes my blood boil!!!

But recently, he sent a video of himself dancing to her phone...the title of the video?

'Me playing with my new Macbook'

He hasn't kicked her a dime since she moved out of the apartment, she doesn't know where he's staying, hell she barely has talked to her from what she has told me, and him seeing his son, well we know that ain't happening. And here he is rubbing in her face that he up on the new-new while she working a full time and a part time trying to make ends meet.

I ask her has she filled out the child support papers yet. She says nah. I purse my lips but damn I wanna tell her how stupid she is! That is MY GIRL! But damn...how can a friend of mine be this weak minded? This accepting of bullshit? Anybody whose anybody knows I don't play that shit. I don't have time nor patience for a muh fucka acting a fool. I will not tolerate nor condone that shit.

This ^^^^^ type of behavior is why negros think they can get away with anything with women..which makes it so very hard for single women like myself who have a good head on their shoulders.

:sigh: